Ubukwe bwapfuye bitewe n’ababyeyi b’umukobwa banze inzu y’umusore ngo ni mbi
Ubukwe bwo gusezerana bwaofuye nyuma y’uko ababyryi b’umukobwa bamaganiye kure inzu y’umusore bavuga ko ari mbi itabasha gutahamo umwana wabo ngo babyihanganire.
Umugore wo muri Nijeriya witwa Maryam Shetty kuri Facebook yerekanye uburyo ubukwe bwahagaritswe bisekeje bitewe n’aho umugabo uzaba.
Shetty, yinubiye urwego rw’amacakubiri yibasiye uduce tumwe twa Nigeria, yatangaje ko ababyeyi b’umugeni bahagaritse ubukwe kubera ko inzu y’umukwe idahuye n’imiterere y’umwana wabo.
Ku bwa Maryam, ababyeyi bavuze ko badashaka ko umukobwa wabo aba ahantu nk’aha. Byongeye kandi, umuryango w’umugeni wasabye umukwe kubaka inzu nshya; igitekerezo umukwe yanze rwose.
Ati: “Turi guhura n’icyorezo, cyane cyane mu majyaruguru ya Nigeria, gikomezwa n’ababyeyi,ivangura. Vuba aha, ubukwe bwahagaritswe kubera ko umuryango w’umugeni wumva ko inzu agiye kubamo idahuye n’urwego rwe hamwe n’amashuri yize.
Yari inzu nziza yubatse neza. Bavuze ko batifuzaga ko umukobwa wabo ababara kandi yarakuriye mu bukire.Umukwe we ni umuntu wiyubashye, wize neza ufite akazi keza kandi avuka mu muryango wo hejuru; ababyeyi be bavuze ko iyo nzu yashoboye gucumbikira umuhungu wabo ndetse iyo nzu yari yarayihawe na se.
Ababyeyi b’umugeni basabye umukwe wabo kubaka inzu nziza ijyanye n’urwego rwabo. Ariko, umukwe n’ababyeyi be barabyanze. Kubera iyo mpamvu, ubukwe bwahagaritswe.
Igitangaje, benshi muri aba babyeyi batangiye ari abakenendetse ntibahaga agaciro ibyo kwinezeza baha agaciro cyane. Ntibigeze bemera ko abana babo bayobora ubuzima bwabo.”
