Dore ibintu wakorera umugabo wawe muri mu buriri ukaba umufashe burundu ntazigere ajya mu bandi bagore

Akenshi abakundana iyo bagiye guhuza urugwiro mu cyumba bashaka kwishimisha ,abagore benshi bo ntibajya bita kumenya aho wafata ku mubiri w’umugabo agafatwa n’amashanyarazi akavuga urushinwa atararwize ndetse ntazigere na rimwe atekereza undi mugore atari wowe.

Nkuko abagabo babikora ku bagore n’abagore niko bakabikoze ku bagabo cyangwa kubo bakundana kugirango mwese murusheho kuryoherwa.

Ntago abagore aribo bagomba kuryoherwa gusa kuko usanga abagore babwira abagabo ngo amwonke ibere nibwo yumva uburyohe cyangwa ati undigate mu gutwi cyangwa ahandi azi bamukoraho akarushaho kubishaka ndetse akaryoherwa cyane.

N’abagabo bagira aho umugore yamukora akumva amashanyarazi amwirutse umubiri wose agatangira kuvuga indimi umugore atazi kubera yamufashe ahantu yumva hamujyana mu ijuru.

Akabariro n’ingezi cyane kuko mujya kuyikora mushaka ko mwembi muryoherwa niyo mpamvu uba ukwiye kumenya ibice by’umubiri w’uwo mukundana wafataho akarushaho kuryoherwa kandi iyo ubimukoreye kurusha abandi niwowe akunda cyane.

Aho wafata

Abashakashatsi bavuga ko abagore benshi hafi 78% iyo bari hamwe n’abakunzi babo usanga bo bafata mu mugongo w’abagabo cyangwa mu mutwe cyangwa no ku bugabo bwabo bazi ko ari hafungura gushaka cyane kumugabo ariko baba bibeshya.

Niba ushaka kumenya aho wafata umugabo akarushaho kuryoherwa uzite kuri aha hakurikira:

Hagati y’umunwa wo hasi n’akanwanwa : aho hantu hagira swingi nyinshi ,uzabigerageze musomana maze ujye uhanyuza isonga yururimi azajya ashaka konka ururimi rwawe urumwime ukomeze uruzengurutse aho hantu azarushaho kumva amashanyarazi amwinjira arusheho kuryoherwa.
Mu ijosi ,Abagore benshi baba bazi ko gusomana no gufatafata umugabo mu misatsi n’ubugabo aribyo bituma umugabo nawe aryoherwa ahubwo bakibagirwa igice gikomeye cyane gifite aho gihurira n’umugabo bwe.

Bwira umugabo aryame agaramye maze ujye umurigata mu ijosi ukoresheje ururimi azaryoherwa cyane. Bamwe abagabo babanga kubera baba batashoboye kubashimisha kubera ko hari uwigeze kumushimisha utamushimisha akakwanga kimwe n’abagabo batazi gushimisha abagore.

Uzarebe iyo umugabo yashimishije umugore niyo yamukubita ate ,n’iyo yamuhemukira bingana bite ntaho umugore yajya kimwe n’umugore washoboye kwemeza umugabo we niyo umugore yahemukira umugabo ate ,umugabo arisaza akagira gute ahubwo bikarangira ariwe usabye imbabazi ngo basubirane.

Akobo kaba iruhande rw’agatsitsino , ako kobo kagira swingi nyinshi ku bagabo , Umugore jya hejuru ureba kubirenge bye n’ubona asa n’utangiye kugira imbaraga nkeya ukande kuri ako kobo buhoro buhoro uzajya kubona yongeye kugira imbaraga mukomeze urugendo.

Imifuka ibika ubugabo, aho haba swingi nyinshi cyane , mbere y’uko mutangira urugendo mu gihe mugisomana cyangwa mutangiye ibiganiro ujye unyuzayo intoki ukoreho ,uzengurutseho intoki gahoro gahoro umugabo azumva uburyohe.

Ubugabo cyangwa ikinyafu, Ubugabo bugira swingi nyinshi , niba ushaka ko mugenzi wawe nawe aryoherwa fata urutoki rwegereye igikumwe hamwe n’igikumwe ibikoremo nka zero igitsina cye igishyire muri iyo zero wakoze ujye uzamura umanura gahoro gahoro unyuzemo ubikore vuba vuba uzabona mugenzi wawe aryohewe cyane agize n’imbaraga nyinshi.

Hagati y’umutwe w’igits1na n’aho gitangirira , aha hantu kubera hihishe kugirango uvugisha mushuti wawe igishinwa wumve amajwi atandukanye avuga , wumve ukuntu avuga indimi nyinshi utazi koresha ururimi ujye urukozaho uzamura usa nuganisha ku mutwe wacyo azakuririmbira mu majwi atandukanye akubwire indimi nyinshi n’igishinwa kandi atarakize kubera uburyohe azaba yumva.

Gerageza umwonke amab1re ye maze ujye ukoresha isonga y’ururimi ku moko y’ibere rye , aho hantu naho hagira swingi nyinshi kubagabo ndetse bituma agira imbaraga zo gukomeza urugendo mwatangiranye.

Hari abagabo nabo baba bashaka ko babafatafata ahantu ku mubiri wabo kugirango barusheho kumva ari byiza baryoherwe n’imibonano ,iyo uwo bari kumwe atabimukoreye ugasanga bose ntibaryohewe kugirango mwese muryoherwe gerageza umukore kuri ibyo bice uko ari 7 ntuzaburamo 3 byingenzi bituma muryoherwa.

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