What Does It Feel Like to Be Back in Rwanda?

Returning to Rwanda after time away is a journey filled with mixed emotions. The familiar sights, sounds, and smells bring comfort, but there’s also a sense of change. Kigali, in particular, has grown, blending the old with the new.

Reconnecting with people can be both heartwarming and challenging. While some relationships remain strong, others may have shifted, requiring effort to rebuild. It’s a reminder that time and distance can alter even the closest bonds.

Navigating the “diaspora” identity is a unique challenge. Being labeled as someone who’s been abroad can feel limiting, but it’s an opportunity to redefine your identity. Embrace the mix of experiences and values that make you who you are.

Supporting local businesses is incredibly rewarding. It’s more than just shopping; it’s about engaging with the community and contributing to its growth. The personal connections you make while doing so add to the experience.

Returning home also means reconnecting with Rwanda’s rich cultural traditions. Engaging with elders and learning from their experiences can provide valuable insights. It’s a way to deepen your understanding of your roots and heritage.

The emotional transition back home is often a rollercoaster. There are highs of joy and lows of frustration, but both are part of the process. Patience and self-compassion are essential as you adjust to life in Rwanda.

Avoiding comparison with others is key to finding peace. It’s easy to feel like you’re falling behind, but everyone’s journey is different. Trusting your own path helps you stay focused and content.

Creating joy in everyday life is crucial. Whether it’s through hobbies, gatherings, or simply appreciating the little things, these moments of happiness make the challenges of returning home easier to bear. Rwanda’s vibrant community offers many opportunities for this.

Returning home also allows you to rediscover your talents and passions. Kigali’s creative and entrepreneurial spirit is thriving, offering endless possibilities for growth and exploration. Engaging with these opportunities can be deeply fulfilling.

Staying true to yourself while respecting community norms is vital. The pressure to conform can be strong, but authenticity and kindness go a long way. Ultimately, returning to Rwanda is about finding your place in a changing landscape and reconnecting with what truly matters.

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Here is a little thread on lessons learned since moving back home 💚 pic.twitter.com/ayRuh1yQG6

— Raissa Muvunyi (@rmuvunyi95) August 26, 2024